Resentment is huge in marriage!?

I have been married for over two years and the resentment toward my wife has grown. It was not like this in beginning. I feel out of control and as though I will never get the help I need in the relationship. I do about 80% of the housework at home: bathrooms, floors, dusting, clothes, and outside work. My wife only does dishes. She is extremely messy/borderline hoarder. Now that I'm making more money, she is out shopping 3-4 times a week for a lot of things we don't need and will probably never use. I handle all nighttime concerns with our child. I wake him up every weekday to get him ready for school while she sleeps in for 45 minutes every morning. is dwindling, and when we do have , she wont do anything that I want only what she wants. I have addressed each of the aforementioned things to her, and she said they would improve and have not. I feel used, constantly angry, and feel very neglected. She doesn't see a problem. I want us to work out but I'm resenting everything!