My boyfriend of 8 years is still married to someone else?

Yikes this is awful. I dont want to put you on a guilt trip but this waas someones marriage that was destroyed here. I had a married man I was tempted to mess with but thank God I didnt because I believe that what you send out in this world you get back. if you ever do get married and this happens to YOU, you are really going to feel terrible. I sure hope that doesnt happen. If I were you I would walk away from the entire situation. If it is meant to be then maybe he will pop back into your life and be divorced and you can continue your life together. If it is meant to be, it will happen. Oddly enough, i think that if he wanted a divorce he would find anyway to get one. You are someones "second", and although i dont know you, you deserve to be someones first.